The Language of Gift-Giving. Ideas and Inspiration.
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Time to read 2 min
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Time to read 2 min
How we give or receive a gift is often a reflection of how we either express love or accept an expression of love. Keeping the season of gift-giving and gift-receiving in mind, and all the many celebrations and milestones each year brings, we thought it would be interesting to briefly explore this very human activity.
There isn’t a culture in history that hasn’t given something as an expression of love or appreciation. Throughout the centuries, the giving of gifts has both established connections and maintained them. Gifts let us communicate our love for someone, our feelings about them, and our gratitude for their presence in our lives. They allow us to say things we may not be able to say with words. If we’re the ones receiving a well-thought-out gift, we’re touched by the time and effort that went into the selection of that meaningful gift.
It’s widely recognized that there are different languages associated with how we both express love and receive those expressions. When your partner’s, or family member’s, love language is receiving gifts, a “visual symbol of love,” being thoughtful in your selection is important. The act of giving is not merely about the material object being transferred; it's about the emotion, thought, and intention behind the gift. A well-chosen gift can strengthen bonds, create lasting memories, and even heal rifts. It's a way of saying "I see you," "I understand you," or "I value you" without uttering a word.
The art of gift-giving is just that - an art. It's about creating a moment of connection, a spark of joy, and a lasting memory. So as you embark on your giving journey, remember that your thoughtfulness and sincerity are the most valuable elements of any item you choose to give.
Here are a few ideas to help ensure that the act of gift-giving is both valued by the receiver and enjoyed by the giver. As always, feel free to reach out to our art consultants and let us assist you in selecting that perfect gift.
What would they give themself? You may have to ask some subtle or not-so-subtle questions, but the end result will be tailor-made.
“We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.”
Keeping those thoughts and feelings in mind will positively influence not only what you ultimately select, but will make the whole process more enjoyable.
“Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.”
A study found that spending our money on others promotes our own happiness. So as you care for yourself, remember the benefits of generosity.
“No one has ever become poor by giving.”